[Paddy has a drag of his own cigarette and just watches her, mainly listening, but also carefully measuring his next words. It's not often Paddy's so cautious with what he says, but he can tell that her telling him this is important.]

I think a lot of people are damn guilty of that one, you know. You build up an image of what you want, and you try to get people to fit it, idolize shit and all of that.

[He took an even breath inwards, then another drag of his cigarette,] Do you think you've ever, actually, been in love? With anyone, or anything, I dunno.